{"id":77269,"date":"2023-02-21T17:50:40","date_gmt":"2023-02-21T10:50:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vietmoms.com\/?p=77269"},"modified":"2023-02-21T17:51:35","modified_gmt":"2023-02-21T10:51:35","slug":"tai-sao-time-out-khong-hieu-qua","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vietmoms.com\/tai-sao-time-out-khong-hieu-qua\/","title":{"rendered":"t\u1ea1i sao time out kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1 style=\"text-align: center;\">t\u1ea1i sao time out kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3<\/h1>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">t\u1ea1i sao time out kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><small><em>Th\u1eddi gian ch\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng?\u00a0Nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng time out \u0111\u1ec3 k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0\u00a0<strong>l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao time out kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3<\/strong>\u00a0v\u00e0 thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec.<\/em><\/small><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-62932 lazyloaded\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/why-time-outs-dont-work-3.jpg\" sizes=\"(max-width: 350px) 100vw, 350px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/why-time-outs-dont-work-3.jpg 700w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/why-time-outs-dont-work-3-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/why-time-outs-dont-work-3-683x1024.jpg 683w\" alt=\"T\u1ea1i sao h\u1ebft gi\u1edd kh\u00f4ng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng\" width=\"350\" height=\"525\" data-pin-description=\"Most parents use time outs to discipline, but they don't work all the time. Here's why timeouts don't work (and what to do instead of timeout).\" data-jpibfi-post-excerpt=\"\" data-jpibfi-post-url=\"https:\/\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/timeouts\/\" data-jpibfi-post-title=\"Why Time Outs Don\u2019t Work (And What to Do Instead)\" data-jpibfi-src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/why-time-outs-dont-work-3.jpg\" data-ll-status=\"loaded\" data-jpibfi-indexer=\"0\" \/>B\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n nghe th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y: N\u1ebfu con b\u1ea1n c\u01b0 x\u1eed kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang m\u1ef1c, h\u00e3y cho con ngh\u1ec9 h\u1ecdc.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c dung th\u1ee9\u00a0v\u00e0 h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra sau h\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y\u00a0.\u00a0B\u1ea1n th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tham kh\u1ea3o c\u00e1c bi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ed3 g\u1ee3i \u00fd n\u00ean cho tr\u1ebb ngh\u1ec9 bao nhi\u00eau ph\u00fat m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i.<\/p>\n<p>Ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb\u2026 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 ch\u00fang c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng.\u00a0Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 x\u1eed l\u00fd h\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i.<\/p>\n<div id=\"cls-video-container-hKmbTl35\" class=\"adthrive\">\n<div id=\"adthrive-collapse-container\" class=\"adthrive-player-container adthrive-collapse-player\">\n<div id=\"adthrive-collapse-position\" class=\"adthrive-player-position adthrive-player-without-wrapper-text adthrive-collapse-float adthrive-collapse-bottom-right adthrive-collapse-medium\">\n<div id=\"adthrive-collapse-close\" class=\"adthrive-wrapper-float-close adthrive-instream-close adthrive-top-left-outer adthrive-float-left\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>B\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ea5y, t\u00f4i c\u00e0ng nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u00e0 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 th\u1eddi gian ch\u1edd, t\u00f4i c\u00e0ng nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y h\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n l\u00e0 c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 n\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i trong m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y, th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0\u00a0<em>ch\u00fang ta<\/em>\u00a0, nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n<p>B\u01b0\u1edbc sang ph\u00f2ng kh\u00e1c ho\u1eb7c h\u00edt m\u1ed9t h\u01a1i \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n l\u00e0\u00a0\u0111\u1ea3 k\u00edch v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh.\u00a0Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 con ch\u00fang ta ngh\u1ec9 h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 chi\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fang h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh vi v\u00e0 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n<h2><span id=\"Why_time_outs_dont_work\" class=\"ez-toc-section\"><\/span>T\u1ea1i sao th\u1eddi gian ch\u1edd kh\u00f4ng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/h2>\n<p>V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u1ea1i sao th\u1eddi gian ch\u1edd kh\u00f4ng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng?\u00a0R\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c, ch\u00fang ta nghe v\u1ec1 ch\u00fang r\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean, cho d\u00f9 t\u1eeb c\u00e1c ngu\u1ed3n nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i kh\u00e1c, tr\u00ean truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh hay b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta.\u00a0Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u1edbi th\u1eddi gian h\u1ebft h\u1ea1n v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i h\u00f3a ra v\u1eabn \u1ed5n.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian ch\u1edd h\u01a1n ch\u00fang ta ngh\u0129.\u00a0V\u1ec1 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i, ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 m\u00e0 c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 t\u1ed1t cho con c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n<p>H\u00e3y xem nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c t\u1ea1i sao th\u1eddi gian ch\u1edd kh\u00f4ng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng.\u00a0Quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n, h\u00e3y t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u xem b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3\u00a0c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi con:<\/p>\n<h3><span id=\"1_Time_outs_isolate_kids\" class=\"ez-toc-section\"><\/span>1. H\u1ebft th\u1eddi gian c\u00e1ch ly tr\u1ebb<\/h3>\n<p><em>T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean<\/em>\u00a0, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i.\u00a0\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng?\u00a0Tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 tr\u1ebb em th\u00edch.\u00a0Kh\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i, kh\u00f4ng ni\u1ec1m vui.\u00a0Ng\u1ed3i v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>Ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb\u2026 h\u1ecd\u00a0<em>kh\u00f4ng<\/em>\u00a0h\u1ecdc b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n<p>M\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh trong g\u00f3c \u0111\u00f3, con b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u00e1nh em g\u00e1i m\u00ecnh.\u00a0C\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng ch\u00ednh h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh\u2014ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y\u2014c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i.\u00a0C\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ea5n an m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a anh \u1ea5y l\u00e0 c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb, hay r\u1eb1ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau d\u00f9 c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra.<\/p>\n<p>Kh\u00f4ng, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y v\u1eabn c\u00f2n t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn v\u00ec s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3.\u00a0C\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u t\u1ea1i sao c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u1ea1i b\u1ecb tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t khi em g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u00e0m h\u1ecfng c\u00e1c kh\u1ed1i x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y.\u00a0C\u00f4 \u1ea5y th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u1ea5u v\u00ec \u0111\u00e1ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n<p>T\u1ea1i sao?\u00a0C\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y.\u00a0C\u00f4 \u1ea5y ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n<p><strong>T\u1ea3i xu\u1ed1ng mi\u1ec5n ph\u00ed:<\/strong>\u00a0B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c khi\u1ebfn c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u1eafng nghe kh\u00f4ng?\u00a0Tham gia b\u1ea3n tin c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u00e0 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1\u00a0<strong>M\u1ed8T<\/strong>\u00a0t\u1eeb hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 l\u00e0m theo h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn.\u00a0T\u1ea3i xu\u1ed1ng t\u1ec7p PDF c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y\u00a0\u2014 mi\u1ec5n ph\u00ed cho b\u1ea1n:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.lpages.co\/one-word\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64653 lazyloaded\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/One-Effective-Word-button-2.jpg\" sizes=\"(max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/One-Effective-Word-button-2.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/One-Effective-Word-button-2-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/One-Effective-Word-button-2-200x200.jpg 200w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/One-Effective-Word-button-2-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/One-Effective-Word-button-2-150x150.jpg 150w\" alt=\"M\u1ed9t t\u1eeb hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn con b\u1ea1n l\u1eafng nghe\" width=\"500\" height=\"500\" data-pin-description=\"Struggling with getting your kids to listen without yelling? 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Effective ideas every mom should read!\" data-jpibfi-post-excerpt=\"\" data-jpibfi-post-url=\"https:\/\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/timeouts\/\" data-jpibfi-post-title=\"Why Time Outs Don\u2019t Work (And What to Do Instead)\" data-jpibfi-src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/One-Effective-Word-button-2.jpg\" data-ll-status=\"loaded\" data-jpibfi-indexer=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<form class=\"seva-form formkit-form\" action=\"https:\/\/app.convertkit.com\/forms\/1550022\/subscriptions\" method=\"post\" data-sv-form=\"1550022\" data-uid=\"a505a7864e\" data-format=\"inline\" data-version=\"5\">\n<div data-style=\"clean\"><\/div>\n<\/form>\n<div id=\"AdThrive_Content_3_desktop\" class=\"adthrive-ad adthrive-content adthrive-content-1 adthrive-ad-cls\" data-google-query-id=\"CN6GueC2pv0CFdDETAIdL68ASQ\">\n<div id=\"google_ads_iframe_\/18190176,22569722480\/AdThrive_Content_3\/55ce422ef14aca035ce6eb27_0__container__\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h3><span id=\"2_Time_outs_dont_acknowledge_your_childs_feelings\" class=\"ez-toc-section\"><\/span>2. H\u1ebft gi\u1edd kh\u00f4ng th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a con b\u1ea1n<\/h3>\n<p><em><small>Ti\u1ebft l\u1ed9: B\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y ch\u1ee9a c\u00e1c li\u00ean k\u1ebft li\u00ean k\u1ebft, c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 t\u00f4i s\u1ebd ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3n hoa h\u1ed3ng\u2014b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 th\u00eam ph\u00ed\u2014n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mua h\u00e0ng.<\/small><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Khi cho con m\u00ecnh ra ngo\u00e0i ch\u01a1i,\u00a0<strong>ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf qua l\u00fd do c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng m\u00e0 ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u<\/strong>\u00a0.\u00a0T\u00f4i g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u201ct\u00f4n vinh s\u1ef1 th\u00f4i th\u00fac\u201d, m\u1ed9t thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t ra trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch\u00a0<em>Tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh<\/em>\u00a0c\u1ee7a Laura Davis\u00a0.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/0553067508\/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=sleepshoulbee-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0553067508\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><strong><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-60809 lazyloaded\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Becoming-the-Parent-You-Want-to-Be-by-Laura-Davis.jpg\" sizes=\"(max-width: 272px) 100vw, 272px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Becoming-the-Parent-You-Want-to-Be-by-Laura-Davis.jpg 544w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Becoming-the-Parent-You-Want-to-Be-by-Laura-Davis-233x300.jpg 233w\" alt=\"Tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh cha m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1edfi Laura Davis\" width=\"272\" height=\"350\" data-pin-description=\"Most parents use time outs to discipline, but they don't work all the time. Here's why timeouts don't work (and what to do instead of timeout).\" data-jpibfi-post-excerpt=\"\" data-jpibfi-post-url=\"https:\/\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/timeouts\/\" data-jpibfi-post-title=\"Why Time Outs Don\u2019t Work (And What to Do Instead)\" data-jpibfi-src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Becoming-the-Parent-You-Want-to-Be-by-Laura-Davis.jpg\" data-ll-status=\"loaded\" data-jpibfi-indexer=\"2\" \/><\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>V\u00ed d\u1ee5, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft \u0111i c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u00f3i quen kinh kh\u1ee7ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.\u00a0Ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 c\u00f4 l\u1eadp anh ta.\u00a0T\u00f4i l\u00fd lu\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng\u00a0<em>vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u00f2n s\u1ebd d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng .<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a anh \u1ea5y.\u00a0Trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a anh \u1ea5y, anh \u1ea5y \u0111ang \u0111\u00e1nh anh trai m\u00ecnh v\u00ec anh \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb l\u1ea5y \u0111i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u00e1nh \u0111\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u00edch h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, nh\u01b0ng khi khi\u1ebfn n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea1m d\u1eebng, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn l\u00fd do c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n.\u00a0\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft, anh \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng anh \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o anh \u1ea5y c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y bu\u1ed3n.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi\u00a0<em>li\u1ec7u<\/em>\u00a0h\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang c\u00f3 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng hay kh\u00f4ng<\/strong>\u00a0khi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i t\u1ea1m d\u1eebng ch\u00fang.\u00a0Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1eadp, d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u, v\u1eabn r\u1ea5t ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft \u0111i, ho\u1eb7c ch\u00fang ta qu\u00ean r\u1eb1ng tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf ng\u1ee7 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 l\u1eddi b\u00e0o ch\u1eefa cho vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e1nh, nh\u01b0ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang cho th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang l\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u01a1 s\u1edf.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, h\u1ebft th\u1eddi gian l\u00e0m tr\u1ebb em x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5.\u00a0<\/strong>L\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7\u2014d\u00f9 l\u00e0 do x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 hay tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t\u2014kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt.\u00a0C\u00e1c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau bao g\u1ed3m nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m theo h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn.\u00a0<em>Kh\u00f4ng<\/em>\u00a0c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u1ee7ng khi\u1ebfp v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n<p><strong>T\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n tr\u1ebb m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft \u0111i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-72551 size-full lazyloaded\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/toddler-hitting-others-2023.jpg\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1400px) 100vw, 1400px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/toddler-hitting-others-2023.jpg 1400w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/toddler-hitting-others-2023-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/toddler-hitting-others-2023-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/toddler-hitting-others-2023-768x512.jpg 768w\" alt=\"Tr\u1ebb m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft \u0111i \u0111\u00e1nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c\" width=\"1400\" height=\"933\" data-pin-description=\"Most parents use time outs to discipline, but they don't work all the time. Here's why timeouts don't work (and what to do instead of timeout).\" data-jpibfi-post-excerpt=\"\" data-jpibfi-post-url=\"https:\/\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/timeouts\/\" data-jpibfi-post-title=\"Why Time Outs Don\u2019t Work (And What to Do Instead)\" data-jpibfi-src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/toddler-hitting-others-2023.jpg\" data-ll-status=\"loaded\" data-jpibfi-indexer=\"3\" \/><\/p>\n<div id=\"AdThrive_Content_5_desktop\" class=\"adthrive-ad adthrive-content adthrive-content-1 adthrive-ad-cls\" data-google-query-id=\"CMWa--C2pv0CFVryTAIdsc4JMQ\">\n<div id=\"google_ads_iframe_\/18190176,22569722480\/AdThrive_Content_5\/55ce422ef14aca035ce6eb27_0__container__\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h3><span id=\"3_Kids_learn_that_negative_feelings_should_be_ignored\" class=\"ez-toc-section\"><\/span>3. Tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng n\u00ean ph\u1edbt l\u1edd nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c<\/h3>\n<p>Sai l\u1ea7m l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t ch\u00fang ta m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i v\u1edbi c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a con m\u00ecnh?\u00a0Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u1eb7t ph\u00e1n quy\u1ebft v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd.\u00a0Ch\u00fang ta \u00f4m con khi ch\u00fang vui v\u1ebb, ph\u1ea5n kh\u00edch v\u00e0 c\u00f3 t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng t\u1ed1t, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang \u0111i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh khi ch\u00fang t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng ho\u1eb7c bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3.<\/p>\n<p>H\u1ebft th\u1eddi gian d\u1ea1y cho h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c che gi\u1ea5u ho\u1eb7c b\u1ecf qua, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp ho\u1eb7c x\u1eed l\u00fd.\u00a0Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd, &#8220;N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecbnh \u1ed3n \u00e0o nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, th\u00ec h\u00e3y kh\u00f3c trong ph\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.&#8221;\u00a0T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ng\u1ed3i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd trong nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3 ho\u1eb7c t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta k\u00ecm n\u00e9n v\u00e0 g\u00e1n cho m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u thay v\u00ec \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang: nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111\u1ebfn r\u1ed3i \u0111i.\u00a0Ch\u00fang c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 ai\u2014ch\u00fang ta\u00a0<em>c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/em>\u00a0t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u1ea5u.<\/p>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"fqhup\" data-offset-key=\"4ij6b-0-0\">\n<div class=\"public-DraftStyleDefault-block public-DraftStyleDefault-ltr\" data-offset-key=\"4ij6b-0-0\"><span class=\"hardreadability\"><span data-offset-key=\"4ij6b-0-0\">\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd \u00f4m con b\u1ea1n b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i \u00f4m v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m tr\u00ecu m\u1ebfn khi ch\u00fang th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng<\/span><\/span><span data-offset-key=\"4ij6b-1-0\">\u00a0.\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"hardreadability\"><span data-offset-key=\"4ij6b-2-0\">M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng gian v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang n\u00ean bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0 \u1edf b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh khi ch\u00fang s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng<\/span><\/span><span data-offset-key=\"4ij6b-3-0\">\u00a0.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><strong>Xem c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a con b\u1ea1n.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-70457 size-full lazyloaded\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/judging-your-childs-emotions-2.jpg\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1400px) 100vw, 1400px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/judging-your-childs-emotions-2.jpg 1400w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/judging-your-childs-emotions-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/judging-your-childs-emotions-2-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/judging-your-childs-emotions-2-768x512.jpg 768w\" alt=\"\u0110\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a con b\u1ea1n\" width=\"1400\" height=\"933\" data-pin-description=\"Most parents use time outs to discipline, but they don't work all the time. Here's why timeouts don't work (and what to do instead of timeout).\" data-jpibfi-post-excerpt=\"\" data-jpibfi-post-url=\"https:\/\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/timeouts\/\" data-jpibfi-post-title=\"Why Time Outs Don\u2019t Work (And What to Do Instead)\" data-jpibfi-src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/judging-your-childs-emotions-2.jpg\" data-ll-status=\"loaded\" \/><\/p>\n<div id=\"AdThrive_Content_6_desktop\" class=\"adthrive-ad adthrive-content adthrive-content-1 adthrive-ad-cls\" data-google-query-id=\"CLGNiOG2pv0CFfz1TAIdPIIDXA\">\n<div id=\"google_ads_iframe_\/18190176,22569722480\/AdThrive_Content_6\/55ce422ef14aca035ce6eb27_0__container__\"><iframe id=\"google_ads_iframe_\/18190176,22569722480\/AdThrive_Content_6\/55ce422ef14aca035ce6eb27_0\" tabindex=\"0\" title=\"3rd party ad content\" role=\"region\" name=\"google_ads_iframe_\/18190176,22569722480\/AdThrive_Content_6\/55ce422ef14aca035ce6eb27_0\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" aria-label=\"Advertisement\" data-load-complete=\"true\" data-google-container-id=\"b\" data-mce-fragment=\"1\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h3><span id=\"4_Kids_dont_learn_to_regulate_their_emotions\" class=\"ez-toc-section\"><\/span>4. Tr\u1ebb em kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/h3>\n<p>Trong th\u1eddi gian time out, b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh c\u1ea3m x\u00fac.\u00a0Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd ho\u1eb7c tr\u1ea5n an h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111\u00e1ng lo ng\u1ea1i l\u00e0 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t.\u00a0Ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch h\u00edt th\u1edf s\u00e2u hay c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c an \u1ee7i b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u00e1t m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o hay m\u1ed9t con th\u00fa nh\u1ed3i b\u00f4ng y\u00eau qu\u00fd.<\/p>\n<p>H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 khi h\u1ecd ng\u1ed3i tr\u00ean gh\u1ebf c\u00e1ch xa ch\u00fang t\u00f4i v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 v\u1eadt d\u1ee5ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i n\u00e0o h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u0110\u1eebng b\u1ecf qua c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb em &#8211; \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/its-okay-why-shouldnt-dismiss-childs-fears\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-62757 lazyloaded\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/dont-dismiss-childrens-emotions.jpg\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1400px) 100vw, 1400px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/dont-dismiss-childrens-emotions.jpg 1400w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/dont-dismiss-childrens-emotions-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/dont-dismiss-childrens-emotions-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/dont-dismiss-childrens-emotions-768x512.jpg 768w\" alt=\"\u0110\u1eebng B\u1ecf Qua C\u1ea3m X\u00fac C\u1ee7a Tr\u1ebb\" width=\"1400\" height=\"934\" data-pin-description=\"Most parents use time outs to discipline, but they don't work all the time. Here's why timeouts don't work (and what to do instead of timeout).\" data-jpibfi-post-excerpt=\"\" data-jpibfi-post-url=\"https:\/\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/timeouts\/\" data-jpibfi-post-title=\"Why Time Outs Don\u2019t Work (And What to Do Instead)\" data-jpibfi-src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/dont-dismiss-childrens-emotions.jpg\" data-ll-status=\"loaded\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h2><span id=\"Why_were_too_quick_to_put_our_kids_in_time_out\" class=\"ez-toc-section\"><\/span>T\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta qu\u00e1 v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a tr\u1ebb em c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta ra ngo\u00e0i<\/h2>\n<p>T\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1eddi gian ch\u1edd ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c?\u00a0T\u1ea1i sao c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ch\u00fang nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt?<\/p>\n<div id=\"AdThrive_Content_7_desktop\" class=\"adthrive-ad adthrive-content adthrive-content-1 adthrive-ad-cls\" data-google-query-id=\"CNP0mOG2pv0CFav2TAIdXLEK8Q\">\n<div id=\"google_ads_iframe_\/18190176,22569722480\/AdThrive_Content_7\/55ce422ef14aca035ce6eb27_0__container__\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><strong>M\u1ed9t l\u00fd do l\u00e0\u00a0<em>ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111ang<\/em>\u00a0ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng.\u00a0<\/strong>Gi\u1eef b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh sau khi con ch\u00fang ta c\u01b0 x\u1eed kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang m\u1ef1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n.\u00a0Ch\u00fang ta m\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 n\u1ed5i c\u01a1n th\u1ecbnh n\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.\u00a0Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u00fang (m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00ec c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh) v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng ch\u00fang ta tr\u00fat b\u1ecf ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n<p><strong>V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u00fd do kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m tin sai l\u1ea7m r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau\u00a0<em>th\u01b0\u1edfng cho<\/em>\u00a0h\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c c\u01b0 x\u1eed kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang m\u1ef1c n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang t\u00f4i d\u00e0nh cho h\u1ecd t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m.\u00a0Ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd \u201ctho\u00e1t t\u1ed9i\u201d b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch gi\u00fap h\u1ecd b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 \u1edf b\u00ean h\u1ecd.\u00a0\u0110\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c n\u00e9m th\u1ee9c \u0103n v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7t ra c\u00e1c gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n\u00a0<em>v\u00e0<\/em>\u00a0\u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n l\u00f2ng tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n.\u00a0Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1ecd ngay c\u1ea3 khi h\u1ecd g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 khi h\u1ecd vui v\u1ebb v\u00e0 c\u01b0 x\u1eed \u0111\u00fang m\u1ef1c.\u00a0Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t.<\/p>\n<p><strong>N\u00f3i v\u1edbi con b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n y\u00eau ch\u00fang, ngay c\u1ea3 khi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/tell-your-kids-you-love-them\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64136 lazyloaded\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/tell-your-kids-you-love-them-2.jpg\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1400px) 100vw, 1400px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/tell-your-kids-you-love-them-2.jpg 1400w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/tell-your-kids-you-love-them-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/tell-your-kids-you-love-them-2-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/tell-your-kids-you-love-them-2-768x512.jpg 768w\" alt=\"N\u00f3i v\u1edbi con b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n y\u00eau ch\u00fang\" width=\"1400\" height=\"933\" data-pin-description=\"Most parents use time outs to discipline, but they don't work all the time. Here's why timeouts don't work (and what to do instead of timeout).\" data-jpibfi-post-excerpt=\"\" data-jpibfi-post-url=\"https:\/\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/timeouts\/\" data-jpibfi-post-title=\"Why Time Outs Don\u2019t Work (And What to Do Instead)\" data-jpibfi-src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/tell-your-kids-you-love-them-2.jpg\" data-ll-status=\"loaded\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h2><span id=\"What_to_do_instead_of_time_outs\" class=\"ez-toc-section\"><\/span>Ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec thay v\u00ec h\u1ebft th\u1eddi gian<\/h2>\n<p>Sau \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn thay th\u1ebf cho th\u1eddi gian ch\u1edd k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt l\u00e0 g\u00ec?\u00a0N\u1ebfu th\u1eddi gian ch\u1edd kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt theo c\u00e1ch h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf h\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb l\u00f2ng tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n?<\/p>\n<h3><span id=\"1_Have_a_time_in\" class=\"ez-toc-section\"><\/span>1. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian\u00a0<em>trong<\/em><\/h3>\n<p>Khi con b\u1ea1n c\u01b0 x\u1eed kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang m\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i cho tr\u1ebb ngh\u1ec9 h\u1ecdc, thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y k\u00e9o tr\u1ebb \u201cv\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c\u201d.\u00a0\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u00fac anh \u1ea5y c\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t.\u00a0Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 khi anh \u1ea5y vui v\u1ebb v\u00e0 vui v\u1ebb, m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 khi anh \u1ea5y bu\u1ed3n, t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n<p>Khi k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi anh \u1ea5y, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a anh \u1ea5y.\u00a0T\u1ed1t h\u01a1n l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00ean quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh xem h\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n hay kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n<p>Sau \u0111\u00f3, khi anh \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp thu, h\u00e3y n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi anh \u1ea5y v\u1ec1 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao anh \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec anh \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m, ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc v\u00e0 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.\u00a0Nh\u01b0ng hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, khi anh \u1ea5y \u0111ang \u1edf trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u1ea3m x\u00fac d\u00e2ng tr\u00e0o, b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9\u00a0<em>c\u1ea7n \u1edf<\/em>\u00a0b\u00ean anh \u1ea5y khi anh \u1ea5y c\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u0110\u1ecdc th\u00eam v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn thay th\u1ebf cho th\u1eddi gian ch\u1edd.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/alternatives-to-timeout\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-62871 size-full lazyloaded\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/alternative-to-time-out-2.jpg\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1400px) 100vw, 1400px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/alternative-to-time-out-2.jpg 1400w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/alternative-to-time-out-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/alternative-to-time-out-2-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/alternative-to-time-out-2-768x512.jpg 768w\" alt=\"Thay th\u1ebf cho H\u1ebft gi\u1edd\" width=\"1400\" height=\"933\" data-pin-description=\"Most parents use time outs to discipline, but they don't work all the time. Here's why timeouts don't work (and what to do instead of timeout).\" data-jpibfi-post-excerpt=\"\" data-jpibfi-post-url=\"https:\/\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/timeouts\/\" data-jpibfi-post-title=\"Why Time Outs Don\u2019t Work (And What to Do Instead)\" data-jpibfi-src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/alternative-to-time-out-2.jpg\" data-ll-status=\"loaded\" data-jpibfi-indexer=\"4\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h3><span id=\"2_Correct_your_childs_behavior\" class=\"ez-toc-section\"><\/span>2. Ch\u1ec9nh s\u1eeda h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a con b\u1ea1n<\/h3>\n<p>B\u00e2y gi\u1edd con b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp thu, l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft h\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ki\u00ean quy\u1ebft nh\u01b0ng t\u1eed t\u1ebf?\u00a0Th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n theo b\u1ed1n ch\u1eef R sau:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>D\u00e1n nh\u00e3n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/li>\n<li>T\u00f4n vinh s\u1ef1 th\u00f4i th\u00fac<\/li>\n<li>Thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n<\/li>\n<li>D\u1ea1y c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>V\u00ed d\u1ee5: \u201cC\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu (g\u1ecdi t\u00ean c\u1ea3m x\u00fac) b\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch th\u1ee9c \u0103n m\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0a cho b\u1ea1n (t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng s\u1ef1 b\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed3ng).\u00a0Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00e9m th\u1ee9c \u0103n xu\u1ed1ng s\u00e0n (thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp c\u00e1c gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n).\u00a0L\u1ea7n t\u1edbi khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch th\u1ee9c \u0103n, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 tr\u00ean b\u00e0n (d\u1ea1y c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn).\u201d<\/p>\n<h3><span id=\"3_Dont_talk-listen_and_be_present\" class=\"ez-toc-section\"><\/span>3. \u0110\u1eebng n\u00f3i &#8211; h\u00e3y l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n<\/h3>\n<p>Con b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng h\u1ed7n lo\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c\u00a0kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe\u00a0ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n \u00f4m con v\u00e0o l\u00f2ng.\u00a0Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, h\u00e3y \u1edf g\u1ea7n v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: \u201cM\u1eb9 \u1edf ngay \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con n\u1ebfu con mu\u1ed1n.\u201d\u00a0H\u00e3y th\u1eed li\u00ean h\u1ec7 l\u1ea1i sau v\u00e0i ph\u00fat.<\/p>\n<p>Ngay c\u1ea3 khi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00f4m, th\u00ec \u00edt nh\u1ea5t c\u00f4 \u1ea5y bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed9c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.\u00a0R\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecf r\u01a1i c\u00f4 \u1ea5y khi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u01b0 x\u1eed kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang m\u1ef1c ho\u1eb7c khi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/how-to-get-toddlers-to-listen-without-yelling\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64010 lazyloaded\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/how-to-get-toddlers-to-listen-without-yelling-2.jpg\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1400px) 100vw, 1400px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/how-to-get-toddlers-to-listen-without-yelling-2.jpg 1400w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/how-to-get-toddlers-to-listen-without-yelling-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/how-to-get-toddlers-to-listen-without-yelling-2-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/how-to-get-toddlers-to-listen-without-yelling-2-768x512.jpg 768w\" alt=\"L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft \u0111i l\u1eafng nghe m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng la h\u00e9t\" width=\"1400\" height=\"933\" data-pin-description=\"Most parents use time outs to discipline, but they don't work all the time. Here's why timeouts don't work (and what to do instead of timeout).\" data-jpibfi-post-excerpt=\"\" data-jpibfi-post-url=\"https:\/\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/timeouts\/\" data-jpibfi-post-title=\"Why Time Outs Don\u2019t Work (And What to Do Instead)\" data-jpibfi-src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/how-to-get-toddlers-to-listen-without-yelling-2.jpg\" data-ll-status=\"loaded\" data-jpibfi-indexer=\"5\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h3><span id=\"4_Let_your_child_cry_to_you\" class=\"ez-toc-section\"><\/span>4. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 con b\u1ea1n kh\u00f3c theo b\u1ea1n<\/h3>\n<p>Th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng sao n\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb em kh\u00f3c.<\/p>\n<p>Con b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh l\u1ea1i nhanh h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i: \u201cM\u1eb9 \u1edf ngay \u0111\u00e2y.\u00a0B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f3c v\u1edbi t\u00f4i,\u201d h\u01a1n l\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n m\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh.\u00a0C\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda c\u00f4 \u1ea5y v\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1.\u00a0C\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u1ea7n l\u00f2ng tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 an \u1ee7i, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 l\u1eadp.<\/p>\n<p><strong>T\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean b\u1ea3o tr\u1ebb em ng\u1eebng kh\u00f3c.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-70253 size-full lazyloaded\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/why-you-shouldnt-tell-kids-to-stop-crying-2.jpg\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1400px) 100vw, 1400px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/why-you-shouldnt-tell-kids-to-stop-crying-2.jpg 1400w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/why-you-shouldnt-tell-kids-to-stop-crying-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/why-you-shouldnt-tell-kids-to-stop-crying-2-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/why-you-shouldnt-tell-kids-to-stop-crying-2-768x512.jpg 768w\" alt=\"T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean b\u1ea3o tr\u1ebb ng\u1eebng kh\u00f3c\" width=\"1400\" height=\"933\" data-pin-description=\"Most parents use time outs to discipline, but they don't work all the time. Here's why timeouts don't work (and what to do instead of timeout).\" data-jpibfi-post-excerpt=\"\" data-jpibfi-post-url=\"https:\/\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/timeouts\/\" data-jpibfi-post-title=\"Why Time Outs Don\u2019t Work (And What to Do Instead)\" data-jpibfi-src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/why-you-shouldnt-tell-kids-to-stop-crying-2.jpg\" data-ll-status=\"loaded\" data-jpibfi-indexer=\"6\" \/><\/strong><\/p>\n<h3><span id=\"5_Redirect_your_childs_actions\" class=\"ez-toc-section\"><\/span>5. Chuy\u1ec3n h\u01b0\u1edbng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a con b\u1ea1n<\/h3>\n<p>Con b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 n\u00e9m m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc xe t\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i n\u1eb7ng v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda c\u1eeda s\u1ed5 k\u00ednh?\u00a0Cho d\u00f9 l\u00e0 do vui \u0111\u00f9a hay t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra g\u1ed1c r\u1ec5 c\u1ee7a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/the-difference-between-distraction-and-redirection\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">hy v\u1ecdng s\u1ebd chuy\u1ec3n h\u01b0\u1edbng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Gi\u1ea3 s\u1eed c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111ang vui \u0111\u00f9a v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n.\u00a0S\u1eeda h\u00e0nh vi v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 cho c\u00f4 \u1ea5y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.\u00a0\u201cT\u00f4i th\u00edch vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00e9m, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e9m \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i n\u1eb7ng v\u00ec ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m v\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ea1c.\u00a0Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y n\u00e9m qu\u1ea3 b\u00f3ng m\u1ec1m n\u00e0y \u0111i.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, gi\u1ea3 s\u1eed c\u00f4 \u1ea5y n\u00e9m qu\u1ea3 b\u00f3ng v\u00ec t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn.\u00a0T\u1ea1i th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mu\u1ed1n gi\u00fap c\u00f4 \u1ea5y ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh l\u1ea1i, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y n\u00e9m th\u1ee9 kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/the-difference-between-distraction-and-redirection\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-66816 lazyloaded\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/redirecting-childrens-behavior-2.jpg\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1400px) 100vw, 1400px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/redirecting-childrens-behavior-2.jpg 1400w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/redirecting-childrens-behavior-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/redirecting-childrens-behavior-2-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/redirecting-childrens-behavior-2-768x512.jpg 768w\" alt=\"Chuy\u1ec3n h\u01b0\u1edbng h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb em\" width=\"1400\" height=\"933\" data-jpibfi-post-excerpt=\"\" data-jpibfi-post-url=\"https:\/\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/timeouts\/\" data-jpibfi-post-title=\"Why Time Outs Don\u2019t Work (And What to Do Instead)\" data-jpibfi-src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/sleepingshouldbeeasy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/redirecting-childrens-behavior-2.jpg\" data-ll-status=\"loaded\" data-jpibfi-indexer=\"7\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h2><span id=\"Conclusion\" class=\"ez-toc-section\"><\/span>Ph\u1ea7n k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn<\/h2>\n<p>H\u1ebft gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3.\u00a0Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nhanh ch\u00f3ng ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n h\u00e0nh vi kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n, nh\u01b0ng tr\u1ebb em h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch tu\u00e2n theo v\u00ec s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i v\u00e0 b\u1ecb \u0111e d\u1ecda, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u1eabn n\u1ed9 v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c thi c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc.<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 cho h\u1ecd c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn.\u00a0Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f4 l\u1eadp ch\u00fang v\u00e0o th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m ch\u00fang c\u1ea7n ch\u00fang ta nh\u1ea5t, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n h\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i v\u1ec1 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y l\u00f4i k\u00e9o con b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c.<\/strong>\u00a0B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 con b\u1ecf qua nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i\u2014b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn s\u1ebd th\u1ef1c thi nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 an \u1ee7i, h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn v\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 con.\u00a0S\u1eeda h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao c\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m v\u00e0 d\u1ea1y c\u00f4 \u1ea5y nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn thay th\u1ebf t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n<p>Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, h\u00e3y c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t v\u00ec c\u00f4 \u1ea5y, b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y.\u00a0R\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u1ea7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n d\u00f9 d\u00e0y hay m\u1ecfng, d\u00f9 c\u01b0 x\u1eed t\u1ed1t hay kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>t\u1ea1i sao time out kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 t\u1ea1i sao time out kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 &nbsp; Th\u1eddi gian ch\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng?\u00a0Nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng time out \u0111\u1ec3 k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0\u00a0l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao time out kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3\u00a0v\u00e0 thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec. B\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n nghe th\u1ea5y [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":77270,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2191,171,4282,3,308,3080,3315],"tags":[5269,5268,5270,5271],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vietmoms.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/77269"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vietmoms.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vietmoms.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vietmoms.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vietmoms.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=77269"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/vietmoms.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/77269\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vietmoms.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/77270"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vietmoms.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=77269"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vietmoms.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=77269"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vietmoms.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=77269"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}